What does it take to rise from the streets of Brooklyn to become a coach, leader, and voice of mental toughness for a new generation? Empire State of Mind is a blueprint for building unshakable resilience when life tries to knock you down.
In this raw and inspiring memoir-meets-manual, Khalil Sikander shares his journey from a chaotic childhood filled with addiction, violence, and instability, to finding strength through the game of basketball. He eventually becomes a decorated educator, coach, and mentor. Along the way, he breaks down powerful lessons learned from personal setbacks, spiritual awakenings, and real-world experiences both on and off the court. Through Khalil's no-filter storytelling and hard-earned wisdom, you'll discover: *How to train your mind like an athlete and become a winner at life
*Why adversity is your greatest teacher, not your enemy
*The link between accountability, purpose, and personal power
*Why therapy, faith, and real connection matter more than ego
*How to build mental toughness that lasts, especially when things feel like they're falling apart If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or on the verge of quitting, Empire State of Mind will reignite the fire inside you. This book is not about surviving, but is about rising, thriving, and learning how to handle the rock in every area of your life.
"Khalil is a Lion! You can see it in his face and experience it through his voice."
Travis Reynolds - Regional Sales Director
"Few individuals have the ability to motivate and inspire people like Khalil Sikander."
Todd Granthem - Instructor, Trainer, Presenter and Coach
"Khalil Sikander has a phenomenal testimony and story. I have been blessed to have had a front row seat many times when he has spoken."
Gabriel A. Jaco - Partner at White Knight Pest Control, Inc.
"Coach K is a special person who has had a significant impact on my life. To honor him and his legacy and his influence, I named my firstborn after him."
Emmanuel Taban-Taeoalii - Former Player and Now Special Education Teacher and Head Women's Basketball Coach
Granger High School, West Valley City, Utah
"Coach Sikander is on another level. He has actually come to speak to my classes and my basketball teams on several occasions because his message is powerful."
Gus Sepona - Head Men's Basketball Coach
Bountiful High School, Bountiful, Utah