The title, Flirting with Fire, is a metaphor for encounters one might face navigating the dating world. Like fire, people have the ability to provide warmth and safety, but also damage and destroy. Also like fire, people can provide a spark. Despite the potential risk of getting burned, many of us seem drawn to the flames. Similar to the author's previous books, My Origami Heart and I Grew Up Playing with Red Flags, this book is based on the author's experiences navigating the dating world. Through descriptive language and poetry, the author takes the reader on a journey through the depths of her heart. Unlike her previous books, this book includes a chapter about the development and ultimate demise of a friendship with a woman. Just as there are "red flags" for dating, there are "red flags" for friendships. This book also includes a list of potential "red flags" if someone is seeking a healthy long term romantic relationship. In addition, this book includes questions and tips to spot potential "red flags" and gauge compatibility