In Goodbye, Spider, Marcella Detreville writes a five-part self-help tool (VASER) to help individuals navigate themselves out of what she calls the web in relationships affected by narcissistic personality syndrome (NPS). The five parts of Goodbye, Spider are
validation,
awareness,
self-empowerment,
escape, and
recovery.
Inspired by surviving her own experience with the NPS web, she shares her discoveries about narcissists and those they target in intimate relationships. The same techniques applied to intimate relationships in this book are also helpful with any long-term relationship with family, coworkers, and others affected by this disorder.
It is a fresh, very hopeful approach to living the best life ever despite these individual's behavior because a personal transformation within is very possible. Inspirational and biblical supports reinforce the best self-care practices, which focus on personal power, love, and a sound mind that God has given us instead of fear, discouragement, and resentment. Goodbye, Spider has techniques that will help targets not only get unstuck from NPS relationships but also stay free as they realize an enjoyable life, heal, and become stronger than ever before. This book will be a valuable resource in your personal-development library.