This is the first-ever book on red flags that highlights some of the unhealthy, toxic traits in both men and women. Most women tend to date from a desperate place, clinging to the idea of entering a long-term committed relationship and eventually marriage. This is how we've all been socialized to think; it can lead some women to become desperate lovers. Meanwhile, men are often taught to think logically, which can cause some of them to become weaponized lovers who prey on desperate partners.
This book explores how a desperate woman can become a red flag and how men can exploit that desperation to manipulate relationships. Ama's approach is refreshing and sincere. She doesn't shy away from the hard truths; instead, she faces them head-on, offering advice that's as honest as it is invaluable.
Her book is not just a guide; it's a journey of self-discovery, encouraging readers to introspect, acknowledge their imperfections, and embark on a path of personal growth. There are also a lot of unhealed wounds and past traumas that can influence our perceptions and behaviors in relationships. By recognizing and understanding these red flags, we empower ourselves to make healthier choices and cultivate more fulfilling connections.