The personal narrative begins in the dark world of organized crime, where the author's first husband brings a sense of danger into their lives. Dinner guests are asked to check their firearms at the door. She then stepped into an unexpected relationship with a younger man whose charm proved timeless, even if his ID was still getting doublechecked.
Through three marriages, two funerals, and one divorce, she discovers that love comes in the most unexpected forms, including a methodical engineer who fell head-over-heels for a free-spirited former go-go dancer.
This raw, candid memoir transforms heartbreak into hope, offering both laughter and practical wisdom for anyone rebuilding after loss. But make no mistake, these aren't your typical fresh starts. Bobbie has rebooted her life from places most people wouldn't dare enter, making her perspective not just credible, but hard-earned. More than a love story, it's a survival guide for life's most unpredictable chapters. She believes if you can't be a good example, you might as well be a colorful one. Her stories offer humor, heart, and the kind of wisdom you only earn the hard way. Includes stories from other widowers.